I have learnt 2 things today which I already knew but didn’t really realise how good they actually are and how beneficial they are to everyone around you.
The first thing I learnt that you don’t get anywhere by being negative. I have a close friend who is amazing and such a good friend but to others, I don’t think she realises it, she can kind of spread negativity around. It starts with a discussion but between her and someone else which ends up in her saying many a rude remark and just generally being unpleasant. I don’t want to sound rude or anything but this is just and example of something that can happen; two different opinions conflicting. It’s ok to express an opinion but when you think your opinion is more valid than others when you aren’t entirely sure it’s 100% a true fact then just tell the person that it was opinion and don’t be rude about the other person’s opinion… their’s is just an opinion too. Recently I have tried my hardest to be as kind and helpful as possible. I’m very proud of what I’ve done so far; I’ve helped out a couple of people when they were sad, kept my mouth shut when I felt anger bubbling inside me or had a rude remark ready to blurt out and tried to spread positivity as much as possible.
The other thing I realised was no to compare myself to others. Just appreciate me and not wish to be like someone else. I never used to notice but I used to actually compare situations and people to other things from books, films, famous people… anything I could compare and not understand that not every situation has to be like something that has already happened. Not every person is almost the same as a celebrity, you get what I’m saying? So, yeah, I’ve also learnt to appreciate myself and my life more which is a great thing to do 🙂
What I’ve decided to do to carry out these things I’ve learnt is have a break from social media… not blogging (or YouTube)because this doesn’t spread negativity but for I’m having a break from snap chat, Instagram ect. because some of the chats I’m in have broken out into argument which I don’t even want to know happen because it’s sad to see my friends fight. So, I’ll keep you updated on how that goes!
I hope you had a great day and feel free to leave how you feel about these topics in the description as well as some advice to deal with my friends (like the one I described in the negativity paragraph).
Lots of love,